Keep Your Beliefs
Monday, January 3rd, 2011It’s hard to have a discussion in tweets. It even sounds silly to say that we would try. It was through tweets that I tried to get across the idea that actions should be attacked more than a person’s beliefs (religious or otherwise). The counterpoint from @FlyingFree333 (youtube channel) was that religious beliefs were the root cause of evil actions and those beliefs should be attacked directly. I still disagree with that overall sentiment and I’ll try to clarify my point here.
One example belief that was provided is a view that gay marriage is bad and that religious belief should be attacked for promoting that view. It’s not a perfect example because we can find some atheists that think homosexuality is unnatural and wrong just as we can find theists that accept gay people and their right to marry and would allow them to do it in a church. It isn’t a uniquely religious experience to be intolerant of others. That’s the first reason I disagree in attacking religious beliefs as a specific cause for homophobia or any other bad beliefs. Religion is just a mythical reflection of humanity so the real question is should we condemn personal human beliefs?
I can throw in racism as a somewhat similar intolerant belief since race discrimination is illegal. Here’s where I get to my other point. Racism is a thought and a belief that is not in itself illegal. I have a racist uncle and nobody can make him change his belief. You can’t outlaw ideas or the sharing of ideas. All you can outlaw are the actions that a person might try to take to impose their beliefs on the rest of society. You can stop my uncle from public discrimination even though he’ll never be friends with someone of another race. That’s the best you can do in a free society that doesn’t try to tell people how to think or what to believe. Attacking beliefs and not letting people think and believe how they want (no matter how bad you think they are) are some of the traits of a theocracy.
Gay marriage can’t be proven to harm others and has no logical reason to be illegal. Once we finally legalize it, there will still be people that don’t believe it’s right and won’t accept it for themselves, their family, their church, or whatever other intolerant group they may belong. I personally feel male homosexuality is gross and unappealing but don’t care what others choose for themselves. There are people today that believe we shouldn’t mix the races, use condoms, and even other odd things like not using electricity. The Amish can’t see this unless you print it out for them. I can criticize and make fun of other people’s beliefs like the Amish but I’d never be intolerant enough to tell them they can’t believe and live the way they choose if I want to share in the same freedoms. For a free society to function the Amish can’t go around cutting down our power lines. Eventually, the majority will catch up to what doesn’t really hurt them and they will let new beliefs continue to grow. Over time we won’t give it another thought that women weren’t allowed to vote, the races were segregated, and homosexuals couldn’t marry as just some examples of the evolution of society.
I want to be free to believe what I want and not be like everyone else. The price I pay for that is others are free to have whatever asinine beliefs they want as well, even yours.
Keep your beliefs… but keep them to yourself.
Update: @GodsDontExist had replied during the initial twitter exchange but states they do not say what I’ve stated as the counterpoint presented here.

