Theism (religious beliefs) and atheism (the lack of those beliefs) are hotly debated topics concerning what people are willing to believe. These debates easily devolve into attacks and defense of believing things based on faith. It’s rare that both sides of the argument can focus on an exploration of what can be considered knowledge based on verifiable truths. This is mostly because the subject matter has nothing to do with the accepted norms of science based knowledge.
Atheists may try to bring knowledge into these discussions but both sides miss the point of arguing about beliefs that aren’t rooted in knowledge. The entire theism/atheism debate falls apart because the only attack or defense of firmly held beliefs is vague descriptions for how we feel about them. It’s as useless as arguing about how we love or hate something. It’s fitting that many people describe having a personal relationship with their creator. It may seem like a one-sided relationship with an imaginary friend but it’s still a real relationship that can be described and shared.
Theists and atheists can both try to claim they have the minds of the agnostic. I’m just talking about people using the agnostic label by itself as a noun. The average self-proclaimed agnostic doesn’t usually live under a religious belief. An agnostic Christian is still a Christian, so I’m always confused by people that throw agnostic (lack of knowledge) together with any faith-based belief system. All of those beliefs lack knowledge so the agnostic adjective doesn’t change the meaning of the noun as it has nothing to do with agnosticism.
I see agnosticism as the better starting point regarding religious beliefs. It serves me well whenever I encounter someone else’s belief claims.
Example: Someone tells you there’s a god that says we should or shouldn’t do X. You could throw any rule in this example like not eating pork, sex before marriage, types of hats to wear, etc.
Theist Response: My starting point is to believe as long as it matches my belief system. I have to ask a bunch of questions first. Is this from the same god I believe in? What does the religious text I read say about it? If there’s conflicting guidance then what does my local group think? What do I personally think about following this as a rule or do I see it as more of a suggestion? etc. If my belief holds then I’ll tell others what “our” god says we should or shouldn’t do.
Atheist Response: My starting point is to disbelieve since gods are unbelievable. I’ll tell people they shouldn’t believe it because it came from a god and gods aren’t real.
Agnostic Response: My starting point is that humans lack knowledge of gods and the supernatural, so the source of this information is obviously a human. However, I can look for some knowledge in what is being said by that human. There could be some tribal or societal knowledge wrapped up in the fog of religion. Likewise, it could just be some religious nonsense somebody dreamed up.
Either way, starting with an immediate disbelief would fall into the trap of giving importance to having beliefs. Blind faith in religious beliefs shouldn’t be answered with only disbelief. Knowledge and our lack of knowledge in that area is much more important.
Knowledge is what we really need to focus on and agnosticism is that starting point.